‘’ Confidence has a common meaning of a certainty about handling something, such as work, family, social events, or relationships.’’ according to WIKIPEDIA. Being confident is having faith in yourself in any situation. Confidence is a very sought-after quality. Lack of confidence could be a very limiting factor and can make people feel incapable, not able to enjoy their life to the fullest. Hopefully, Confidence can be acquired, can be build-up by following a few steps.


Positive thinking is the first step to having some confidence. Start thinking positive will stop any negative thoughts. Negative thoughts are where self-doubt takes place, and self-doubt is fundamentally opposed to confidence. So, having positive thinking is a requirement.


Shyness can really hold people back. It prevents people to express themselves, people who are shy tend to withdraw themselves; they tend to avoid social interactions and avoid usually speaking up for themselves. Always taking up the back seat. Often, shy people do not have the courage to take risks and accomplish great things publicly. So, shyness is to be kicked out. 


Sometimes to feel confident you have to appear confident. A nice outfit, a nice pair of shoes, neat hair, nails beautifully done can high rocket someone confidence. Physical appearance is a form of communication, non-verbal communication; so, a good physical appearance would always help. 


Make a list of all the things you are scared of, things that intimidate you. Name all those things. Make a plan on how you are going to eliminate them, one at the time. Instead of avoiding them, just face them head-on.


Interacting with other people will massively help, supposing they are not some bullies, in this case, they will make the matter worse. Surround yourself with positive-minded people who will help you to express yourself, give you choices. Show interest to people around you, asked questions, just to engage with them. 


Educate yourself. Invest in yourself. You can do so by furthering your education at school or at home, by reading; by attending some training. There are a lot of possibilities for someone who is willing their self-development out there, most of those are for free. You are more confident if you know what you are talking about.